Thanks - this is a great post and loved your links, especially the one on detaching. Highly recommend.

I am so new at all this, first month under my belt. I hate it and my emotions run from happy to uncontrolable crying in about 2.5 seconds sometimes.

Right now, WW is in her room reading. The hardest thing in the world is to not just run in there and kiss her and run out - like that would cure the entire thing! Well, that wouldn't solve anything, but I can dream! Dreams and hope is what I have and will hold onto as I go through this process.


M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19
Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16
Divorce final 10/09