I WANT to be one of those women who looks up and says..."I am better than this, I deserve better-----and he lost not me.....that is what I want. and that is HARD because that is FACING who H really really is...a liar.
Cagz, I get what you are saying here...but you DO deserve better, and the quicker you face who your H really is the quicker you will believe in that. I have the same problem with mine--- unfortunately there is no OW and there is a lot of sweet talk, which makes turning away and believing in deserving better sooooo much harder.
IMP, Have a great vacation. Why are ya harassing RCR so much? (TP's thread) That know-it-all stuff ain't my cup 'o tea, but maybe there is something useful in there?