Imageer, who knows? It is so hard to know what they are thinking. I will say that they are creatures of impulse so it could either be that it triggered a memory of something similar that you two shared so it seemed natural for her to call you or just wanting to reach out, subconsciously to know there is still a connection. Either way, it could be a positive.
It says a lot about how you have stayed on good terms with her throughout this mess. Praying for you buddy!
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
Ever since S8's report card came home we have been working together to come up with a solution to his problems in school. I did say to her that I feel the root of his problem is this situation which made her go quiet for a day but mostly it has been good.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
Ever since S8's report card came home we have been working together to come up with a solution to his problems in school. I did say to her that I feel the root of his problem is this situation which made her go quiet for a day but mostly it has been good.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
Ever since S8's report card came home we have been working together to come up with a solution to his problems in school. I did say to her that I feel the root of his problem is this situation which made her go quiet for a day but mostly it has been good.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
MMF, PH. If it a momory or if she is missing me, I don't know. It does seem though that she is thinking of me enough to write me an email about nothing.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
Imageer, Just like my H called me to wish me a good trip and tell me our dog was enjoying her stay with him. Other times, he didn't call to wish me a good trip - email at best. He sure was in a good mood too when he called. I think he missed me the night before when he attended a concert. I had prayed that he would be reminded of the time he went with me to hear the same concert in a different setting a few years ago. I think the prayers worked.
PH, I think there is much confusion in many of our WAS/MLCers. I think they spend more time wondering if they made the right choice than they would have you believe. Keep on praying for him, I hope he will thank you for it one day.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
Tomorrow is going to be an interesting day. W and I have a school function with S8 in the morning and then I have to drive W back to her place, 20 minutes away. It will be 20 minutes of her and I alone in the car. That's the longest we've been alone together in 16 months. I hope it goes well.
Wish me luck......
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
Imageer, I hope you are right. My H told me last week that he blocks me out and doesn't think of me much at all. I wonder if that is true. Yet, he said he thought of me all day the day before that.
In that same conversation he said 2 things which seem inconsistent with each other: 1) We don't get along and are not meant for each other 2) We screwed up our marriage.
To me, (2) is within our control and has nothing to do with being incompatible. Am I making any sense?
