Kiwi,
I think there is some advice in DR about how to "piece". You may want to try a DB coach and/or look for a solution based MC locally. Also, maybe post your question in the piecing forum and see if some old-timers there can help.

That said, I agree with Dave. Just be the person you are. Be kind and considerate to WAW. Be a GREAT listener, validate her problems, etc. Just use what you have learned over these months. If you are really right each other, you both with figure it out together.

SD


Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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