Totally Lost after 23 years

[CBK]

Just to clarify - our friends have no idea there has been any infidelity - I promised my W that I would not do this. Even though I though about it, and sometimes still do, Addie and Stella smacked some sense into me! :-)

The only people that know the entire sitc is this board, three of my support group, at least one in hers and our counselors. Small group, and will keep it that way.

My concern is that WW is telling folks that she needs to move out at the end of summer and may do it just to save face. I hope not, but it gives me a lot of time to DB!