H and I have very little contact. Maybe a total of 1 hr in the 3 mos since he quit MC and brought up D (which he framed as being for my benefit. . . ). I told him the other day that I need to talk with him about moving the rest of his stuff out as I want to get the house ready to sell. So, he took some things this w/e - came and went while I was out. I really do want to move, but that is so stressful on top of everything else that I am only taking baby steps. I thought that seeing me move forward might give him a sense that I am letting go. I see no chance for him to turn back to me if he takes me for granted. He needs to feel that he is pursuing a challenge and here I am totally open and exposed. Right now, I have only 1 R goal, which is for him to initiate a call to me just to say hi and check-in. Even something as simple as that seems unlikely to happen.
Brit - I follow your thread, but don't usually post. Your empathy and patience for your W astound me. She is definitely getting the best of both worlds. . . .
me: 47 H: 48 he has 2 grown sons M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd) hit iceberg 6/07 S 9/26/07 before now
