I basically gave him an open-ended free pass to live in limbo-land as long as he wants - no pressure at all. Now, I am feeling like I need somehow to move on and I don't think I can do it while still M.
I think there are a few of us in the same position - Spouse is not moving towards us, but they're not moving further away either. They have the best of both worlds, as they can have their freedom and do their own thing, but they can also come back to their little family life when they feel like it also.
I wish I had an answer for you. I think this is why many say that the LBS can often become the WAS who ultimately ends the marriage. I've been separated for six months - We've not talked about D in a long time, other than W joking that it might save us some tax dollars...
