Thought I'd move over to the Separated forum for a while. It's been 7 months since H moved out and no progress, so I'm not sure how much longer I can manage to stay like this. I thought in the beginning that h*ll wld freeze over before I would file. I think my H is too passive-aggressive to do it himself and it seems most WAS/MLCers don't do it for some reason. But - I also think I made a big mistake in telling him when he brought up D in January that I wasn't trying to set a deadline for moving forward and that I was willing to give him the time and space he seems to need right now. I basically gave him an open-ended free pass to live in limbo-land as long as he wants - no pressure at all. Now, I am feeling like I need somehow to move on and I don't think I can do it while still M.
me: 47 H: 48 he has 2 grown sons M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd) hit iceberg 6/07 S 9/26/07 before now
