UGH!! STBXH just dropped off D4 and is off to ow's (where he typically stays 5-6 night a week now). However, he just slept here four nights in a row and now D4 keeps asking over and over why he has to leave and where he's going. It is ripping my heart apart! She just doesn't understand and him being here all those nights just seemed to have confused her more and disappointed her more now that he's gone. Can someone remind me again how resilient kids are????.. cuz it doesn't seem to be the case here...