Thanks CBK...I have been working on me. But right now I am working on crying it all out. The pain is just awful. I have already been through this with H and the OW. I am going to end my contact with him while we remain in the same house. If I can just distance myself from him maybe then I won't care that he doesn't come home.

I do have much more to offer than OW ever will. I keep saying to myself..."just because H says he doesn't love me doesn't make me an unloveable person." I am not believing it at the moment, but I keep saying it.

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08