Hi Ken. Sorry you find yourself here and the people on this forum are a great comfort when I have been down.

Do not feel the least bit bad about being skeptical of your W's sudden change in attitude. This is a very common ploy to use during a D. Also, why in the world would we trust anyone who wants to leave us? I mean, seriously?

I am headed toward the big D, and as much as I love my STBX, I am absolutely not confused about the finances. The WAS makes their bed, they should be more than happy to lie in it. What the hell did they think would happen? That the Magic D Fairy would provide for their Shiny New Life without us?