It does sound like DBing but none of it would be possible for her to pull off because she is such a hot head, always has to have the first and last word. Is always screaming and yelling and could never be the voice of reason anywhere. She could never walk away and not engage. She loves to engage in any fight. I do have my work cut out for me. i would like to try forever but I think the end is near. BTW: I got asked out by a very nice lady today. i calmly told her she was wounderful but I need the time and was not ready yet. I think that is appropriate, no?