Thanks Dave, I always enjoy your posts.

Taking it all away is interesting, but not in my nature, I think. Although who knows - feelings change every day, hey just look at my wife!

It's easy to back off when things are like this, however.

It was weird yesterday, W asked me if anyone had shown any interest in me, so I told her the story about the girl in Starbucks (on Thursday of last week) asking me to have coffee with her, then when I didn't, giving me her number.

"You should ask her out" she said. "What? Are you serious?" I responded. "Yes, absolutely" she said "if you need my blessing to do it, you have it!".

What the hell do I do with that kind of dialogue? I didn't even have my usual witty response.

Am I being tested? Or is she genuine? Or does she want to feel less guilt about what she has "done to us"?

Questions for another day. My brain hurts!

EDIT: Saw Fish's post when I posted mine. Thanks for the feedback Fish, I take all of it in and process it with all the rest!

Last edited by minkerman; 04/20/08 09:44 PM.