Congrats on the 10K, that is awesome. You are the man!
Sorry to hear about the sitch with "W." I know my opinon now differs than almost everyone on this board, but if she gives you the ok to date - do it. Go out there and see for yourself if staying with W is right, or maybe there is someone out there that is far more compatible with the Mink Man and truly "gets" you.
Ever since I let my W loose 100% I feel free. It's great to have my ba**s back!