I had the seperation discussion with him a week ago today. He had the same sob story about how he can't afford to live on his own and how he is trying to save money.

The strange thing is that he has been SUPER nice to me since that talk. He has done a ton of work around the house, bought me dinner last night, hugged me!!! My guess is that he is feeling guilty about the affair being back on. I don't know.

I thought about talking to him about an in house seperation. I am already sleeping out in my doll room (a small room connected to the garage). My thoughts are maybe to live totally seperate lives until he is finished with his classes and can move out on his own.

That is just one idea I came up with. The other thought is to go to a lawyer and get a legal seperation where the courts decide who has to leave. This might take some time and isn't what I want.

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08