Oh... and Michelle,... he said: "I need to be able to step back and see the changes" when we're apart. He wants and needs to SEE those changes in me. (forget for the time being the revisionism that has gone on, of course).

His comfort zone really has taken a turn towards turning the corner since I was put on ADs... (saying we've been doing "good" etc... even with those no no R talks.)

No anger though... a lot of questions... seems more comfortable "saying stuff" in bits and sperts.

Abbey

T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.