Being alone in your house could be perfect. If she ends it with OM and there is NC, but she's still in the house you can GAL, show her what she's going to be missing, etc. Meet any of the emotional needs she has even if she won't acknowledge it RIGHT NOW.
Mow the yard. Do some laundry. Do dishes. Make dinner and ask her if she wants to join you. She says "no", you say, "ok, and enjoy dinner without her. Go out, even if by yourself. Let her sit at home by HERSELF, wallowing in self pity. She will notice even if she's doesn't give you the credit for it.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
