I do know she has re-written history of our marriage and that a lot of what she is saying crap. We had a conversation this morning and that is where a lot of that post came from. I know she believes this guy is still there, he is an emotional crutch and she is still in her "drug" stage. I am going to abide by my no snoop week, then see where we are. She twists her words around to make sure she is right - for instance. She had an event after work until 8 PM - she got home about 9 PM. Today I said I know you saw OM after the even, she said not after - well, then I said DURING, regardless, you saw him and talked to him and I don't appreciate it, but those are your actions and you need to know that I don't appreciate it.
She keeps this up, I will have no choice but to snoop and find the other person. I am going to fight for the R to workout, but doing many things for me along the way.
I know she is in the fog right now and I hope her IC helps her - not sure if he will or not as my wife is pretty dead set on being along right now - the funny part is she wants to be alone in OUR house! I don't think so. We will cross that bridge when and if needed.
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09
