I am so sorry!!! It seems you (sigh) might be right about H being involved. I swear, our gut/heart can sure be right sometimes.
One atty I spoke with said you can present emotional distress to a judge to get H to leave, but that might get nasty. I am pretty sure you don't want to move out either.
What do you want to happen if you find out H *is* still involved with someone?
