Drowning after 23 years!

[CBK]

Yes, I have asked and she has told me that she is not making her decisions based on whether to be with him or me. Right now, she feels best when she is alone and wants to know that she can make it on her own. Although she has called him and he is serving as some EA, he cannot commit anymore than he has with his family and W I think is figuring that out.

With that being said, right now, she is not committed to working on our relationship either. She is trying to be okay with herself first. I figure I have about 4 months to give her the space she needs with in our home (even with me and the kids in the house), and DB and make her want to come back to me because that is what she wanted to do, and if I am available, I will be here with open arms because that will be my choice.

Now I just have to get my plan in gear, whatever that may be.