Good luck Kris! I am sure it will be difficult, but if you are at the end of your rope, then you really have no choice but to have this talk.

I am getting to the end of my rope. I am not there yet, but getting close. I am pretty sure H is back with the OW and I am just at a loss for feeling at the moment. I am giving myself time to sort things out in my mind.

I think you are already past that point and know what you need for you. It is a difficult task, but just build up all of the strength you have and take that step to having the talk.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08