Did you snoop BT?? tsk tsk....now you feel like your the enemy.
hold on, let me read this again.......
You want my honest opinion?
I like her support group
Sounds much like the support we get on here.
Quote:
YOU are going to have to get on your knees every night and pray like a mad woman for God to give YOU the strength to be The Voice of Calm Reason in that house. YOU must commit yourself to taking a step back each and every time he does his [censored] Dance. THINK first and respond later!!!! And anticipate the foolishness! Go outside the 'box' and do something so goddamned CALM and so goddamned REASONABLE as a response to his antics that he is tossed off the bridge at the end of the day by his own silliness. He throws 'drinking' in your face? If you cannot ignore it (the best scenario!), just smile and laugh and make a ONE SENTENCE low-key comment NOT LOUD---- ----just a calm, smiling, KNOWING, off-hand comment that in his heart he knows is true WITHOUT DRAMA. And then walk the hell away and DO NOT ENGAGE!!! Trust me, the KIDS know this [censored]------------they've lived it. You don't need to preach a sermon and his recent 'come to Jesus' won't erase all those years of knowing what the hell went on in that house! (I'm 61 and I remember what went on on Middle Street VERY well (her childhood house, Father was a drunk)..............)
Wow.....the more I read it sounds exactly like the support we get here???
I could quote everything.
Sounds like DB'ing, acting as if, and GAL.
It also sounds like she's setting boundaries.
You've got your work cut out for you BT.
Best of luck!
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
