lwb - I thought a lot what to say, but at the end I concluded that this guy is pursuing a married woman - no good - and he is buying my kids with the main purpose to buy my wife - I am sure of that - he wants my wife and he HAS to be nice to the kids if he wants his plan to work - he is NOT nice to the kids because he "likes them". They are not his kids, and I don't think he is caring too much about them, at least right now. He is sneaky and my kids, also if very young, need to be weary.