Ali,

I meant to address your questions a few days ago, but didn't get to it. You asked:
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How are you feeling about your W now then? Do you still love her? I was just wondering becuase she must surely be testing your love to the limits with the way she has been behaving, but I'm sure you still do.

I can't believe it, but I still do love her. I'm confident that my effectively pulling a 180 will cause her anger to subside as will the final parenting evaluator's decision on custody (which does seem like it is dragging on, and on, and on). I do still love her and would like to consider working on reconciliation, but I'm not sure she'll be able to come back from where she has gone. I just don't know. The things she has listed in her legal arugments are so mean, nasty, and untrue. She has painted me in a way that would require her to make a major, major admission on her part that I wasn't that person.

I'd love to find out if she has that type of strength of character, but I'm not sure she's confident enough in herself to take back and take accountability for what she's said and done.

Only time will tell.

RTL


M:38; D: 6
Divorce Final: 10/6/08