He left again after five weeks........

[a new 2moro]

Before anyone can get help for issues, they have to WANT TO. I'm not sure your H does. Until he starts taking responsibility for his actions instead of blaming you for everything, I don't see this changing. I

this is a valid point. I too am very concerned for your family as a whole. The damage he is doing to you and the kids as a family is staggering. I really think some family C is in order especially if you want to welcome your H back into the fold.

well all those talks before he came home are meaningless now, just empty words. he stomped on everyone of them. he did not have the actions to back them up...just like my H, just empty words.