I'll lead off w/ the negative, then switch to the positive. First I got W's arguments in the mail yesterday and I have to say I was very upset w/ what I read. Her entire case against me is either blatant lies or serious distortions of the truth. So, as I looked at the "case" she's been building against me it ticked me off as well as made me very sad. Now, I think I'll need to go through her arguments one-by-one and put my defense in place. There are some things I don't have any intentiion of denying b/c they are the truth and I've not only been open w/ W about them, but w/ my T and the parenting evaluator as well. So, I have more emotionally draining work to do beginning tonight, so I'm not looking forward to that.
However, the day was good yesterday. First off, the movers came early and W called to ask if that was ok. I said fine, had them come and get W's requested things and they left. I then was at work putting things back in place and was also in the attic looking for stuff when W called asking if I'd like to see D sooner as she really wanted to see me. I told W I was dirty but basically threw on a hat and prepared to leave. I quickly packed my car w/ as many of the small breakable items as I could find to drop off w/ W.
I got D and we ended up goofing around as I was running a couple of errands, then we went home, got clean and prepared to go to the Prom. I am a junior advisor, so I was required to be there, so I was happy to take D as my date. I put on my suit and let D pick out a dress she wanted to wear and we went out to sushi, then to the Prom. D and I got our picture taken and danced, danced, danced. She had a great time and was laughing and smiling throughout.
We left around 9 and on the way home W sent a text asking how things went. I didn't reply b/c in her arguments against me she repeatedly claims I'm keeping D up past her bedtime. Thus, I wasn't going to give her ammunition. However, to answer her question, D and I had a wonderful time.
Today we're trying to figure out what we'd like to do today as D wants to do everything, but there is the time situation to consider.
I'll be seeing W again around 5 so I'll let you know if anything happens as well as how the day w/ D goes today.
