We have kids the same age. My H is 'done' with the OW, but she was around them all summer long, spending time with them, and doing things for them. I always remained positive about OW to my girls (they were clueless, to them OW was just Miss OW, the mom of their friends).
What you said is fine, but I suppose I worry about them being torn between you and OM down the road. Gross, I know. OM doesn't deserve the wonderfulness (yes, that's my word lol) of your children. I pray your marriage works out, and that is why you are here, but you would never want your kids to feel guilty about a thing. Especially during something hard like this.
You are doing great, this is so hard rop. I know it.
