I forgot to mention.... OM is giving presents to my kids. That drives me crazy - the guy is stealing my family. My kids, that I think are too small to understand what is going on, yesterday asked me: "why don't you meet this friend of mom? Is a nice guy". I didn't know what to say, at the end I said "this guy may be nice with you and mom, but is not nice with me this is why I don't want to meet him". OM, for what I understand, is around 45, no family, no kids, maybe he is thinking MY family can feel his void.... but I have to stop to over analyze - what would WoNdeRfUlMe do?
