Yes, I'll go with what Dom said. I think the CDC reported something like 2% of them do change? But even then abusers will say/do anything to make it look like they are going to change and even show changes for a few weeks and revert, but it's just to get you to stay put or under their control. So deciphering real honest to goodness change (and if it's lasting) and his promises to change can be difficult. Good periods rarely last.
Originally Posted By: ping1
Sienna, people can change when they want to, I didn't think I needed to change either until W and I seperated. Has your H made any attempt after the S to change at all? Have you seen any change in him? Would you be willing to work on saving your M if he were to change?
Not everyone is equal but anyone can change if they first recognize they want to change and then do what it takes to make it happen.
Ping, I've read your stitch. Maybe you're looking to see what someone in my shoes thinks (we may have similar situations) and if there's a chance for you. I don't want to take up too much of Ms. Ladybug's post, but I dont know how else to answer you since PM doesn't seem to work.
