She said that she is afraid she would lose the kids if they ever found out. I will bring this up at the next MC and see what she says. I agree, why should I be fair when she is not. Again, lots of soul searching here. I do wish I had the other person's W name - at least it would be an option...

Puppy - how did your W react to all of this? Do you still talk? Are you on your way to mending?

M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19
Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16
Divorce final 10/09