I said that to H the other day (when he YET AGAIN stood me up. He was supposed to watch the girls so I could work, called me 10 minutes before I was leaving and said "I am not coming"). I said "I am trying so hard to not hate you, I really am. You want to be my friend? Prove it!" and hung up.
Sorry the mediator might not be the route to go for you guys? Have you tried to discuss this with W, that it might be a waste of money?
