Originally Posted By: steelersfan
bravehearrt:

yes, he does want to be with me. we did extensive talking weeks before he moved back home and the talks were not just your run of the mill I am sorry type either. and i have his text messages to back it up.

he is of course not himself and has issues--mental and alcohol related that he has got to get help for but he has got to do this.

he is the type that you cannot tell him what to do because it backfires.

this is just part of God's plan and He is still very much in control.

i have no plans to get a divorce.

with that said, we are carrying on with our lives over here.


S.F. I don't want you to get the wrong idea about my blunt post, I guess I am mad for you if that makes any sense. I do hope things go the way you want them. Before anyone can get help for issues, they have to WANT TO. I'm not sure your H does. Until he starts taking responsibility for his actions instead of blaming you for everything, I don't see this changing. I wish you the best no matter what!