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I think W really wants my friendship, but doesn't seem to grasp that you can't just go from being in a 12 year relationship to being friends


My H thinks the same way. Thinks we can be divorced and be the best of friends. He is quickly learning (by him moving out) that this isn't possible.

I felt a 'click' in February, a drop the rope kind of click. You are right, its not giving up, its just letting go, for your own well being.