thanks guys for all your support. Yes, I have seen and retained a lawyer so I know my rights and all that is being set in motion. H knows I have seen a lawyer, but doesn't know what was discussed or the facts (as per my lawyer I was advised to not say anything to h about our discussions).
my goals:
h is moving out tomorrow, is gone for the day, so I willpack his clothes and stuff (he isn't taking furniture or anything else). 2. I will read a novel I bought 3. I will listen to music I love (found it helped me last night) 4. I will play guitar today (I'm a singer/songwriter) 5. I will plan which al-anon mtgs to go to this week and arrange a babysitter for those nights (probably 2 nights) 6. I will continue my 180 of looking fab again today 7. I'm thinking of going back to school, I will spend some time looking into this 8. I will take a nap (I'v always loved taking naps!) 9. I will put all pics of h and I away (except the pic of h that is in d's room) 10. I'm starting a job (I used to work for this company and am starting again tomorrow working from home) and I will totally focus on work tomorrow and do the best job I can 11. I will not engange in r talks or legal talks with h this entire week. (this will be first week he will be out of the house) 12. I will not call him unless it has to do with daughter 13. I will act upbeat when we do speak 14. I will act like I'm OK with things and that I need this time as well 15. I will spend loving time with daughter
