When she was first sent down there, she complained that new H touched her and made references to her butt, made D uncomfortable. Then when D was on computer. He made a comment to her and asked her if she was watching porn! This is a 12 yr old girl!! I called a childrens aid and reported this and after they talked to D and her mother, they concluded that I was over-reacting. XW is a GREAT lyer. She has a gift of it and has the talent to get anyone and everyone to believe her. No matter what the situation. D wants her mother and father back together and I suppose she didn't want to create waves with her mom, thats why she folded. But on the other hand. I feel that DCFS could have seen through this smoke screen and acted more aggressive.
I now hear that D is emotionally envolved with a 15 yr old boy who smokes,(his mother buys him cigs) he was expelled from reg. school and now goes to an alturnative school, and is now experimenting with pot. I explain my disapproval of this boy to her and ask if her mother knows of this boys history and she tells me yes, I then ask her how she feels about it and she tells me she dosen't care, that they are planning to have this boy over for supper soon to get to know him better.
I have contacted D school to talk to someone there who can give her counceling. Had a nice long talk with the vice principle who told me she would do what she could to get D to come talk with her, to go through her true feelings and get her the emotional help D's craving for. I mention this boy to her and she told me he was a bad egg and that D should stay away from her. I told her where I am and that my contact with D is limited and I can only do so much, and feel her mother is not looking out for her best interest. VP told me that they were in the middle of SAT tests and that when that was over, she assured me taht she would bring D in and talk with her. So, SOme relief maybe coming my way, I just hope D opens up to her with the truth and VP would act on it. Would be nice to have someone repetable on my side.
