No, it wasn't what i wanted to hear, but i appreciate it as it comes from somebody doing what my wife does. However, all our sitches for there similarities are different and my wife would of told me if she had slept with that man that night or done everything to get me to leave the house by now IMHO. I've asked so many times at first, that i'm convinced by her response that she didn't. Saying that, that doesn't mean she hasn't with him or another man since, though not a great deal of opportunities and don't you women want more than just sex ?
I have days I really want this, then have days where I think 'is it worth it?'. I question whether i'm doing this totally for me or my boys, but is that wrong anyway ?
Are the sly little comments a test to see if I bite bTW ? I mean, telling me men were approaching her Fri night, asking if I got chatted up last night and just things like that as if she were speaking to a friend ?
A friend also pointed out to me that as we are 'over' she isn't actually doing anything wrong anymore.
Been waiting for C for 3 months due to times we can make, and still not got it. Very Frustrating that is.
Anyway, I'm hanging in, being nice, not getting sucked into arguements and enjoying time with my boys for now as if we split, I'll hardly see them (by comparison) for a while which would kill me.
Sandi - Can you add a link to your post as i'd like to read the whole story ? cheers
