The more I reflect on things, the more I think my W has been "checked out" for several years. I think I have been "Checked out to". I think we both stayed together for the kids.

Was not too hard to detach. I look at my Alien W and do not find her physical attractive. Funny how the mind works.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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