No, HER dating while telling you she doesn't want a divorce keeps her from having to face the risks. If she doesn't file a divorce, then the option of staying married is still quite feasible. If she waits to divorce to date then she really is going to have to face the whole shebang.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.