Wow, Sara hit the nail on the head for so many people out there and it's like an addiction, really, b/c of the endorphins and the rush it gives us. Everywhere we look we are told that this is what love looks like, the "falling-in-love" stage. I guess that's b/c real love, the "I-love-you-even-though-you-snore-and-leave-your-wet-towel-on-the-bed" stage, which is pretty much everything after falling in love, doesn't play well in the movies. But that is the love that is like coming home, like the old sweater that fits perfectly, the recipe that you've made hundreds of times but still always comes out perfect every time. That is the love that lasts.
You have been given the ultimate gift - a second (or fourth) chance. You get to try and make this work while your H is still willing to take you back. You have nothing to lose here, but you've got to do it with your whole heart. It's going to be hard, but you must know somewhere deep inside of you that if you can do it, it will be amazing. Believe you can and you're more than halfway there.
Good luck. FA
Last edited by fooled again; 04/20/0805:06 AM.
What does not destroy me, makes me stronger.
FA:43, H:42 D:7 M:10 yrs, T:24 yrs EA:?, PA:1/06 S:3/07 EA/PA ongoing Aborted attempt to move home 07/08
