How bizarre. Just had a very interesting day, one that didn't directly involve my H. My son and daughter have classmates that are also siblings and their mother and I have been talking about getting them together for a playdate for quite a while. Today it happened. It turned out to be a nice exchange; first I dropped them off at their house and ran some errands, then picked them up and they came to my house while their mother did some chores. After that we returned and had dinner there. She and I have been living parallel lives!
Her H moved out last June and is just now returning. Her sitch and my sitch are aerially similar. How her H was going out and excluding her, how they drifted apart, etc etc etc. Our kids are almost he same age, same age difference between them, we both studied the same things in college and had similar careers. Our Hs have lots of similarities and our kids get along quite well. While we were obsessed with our Hs and our Rs, it was like talking to a mirror.
And my H thinks that we are so special, that our problems are so unique. hehehe
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
