Well, I guess it's safe to say that she's not going to return the call. It's been 12 hours. I suppose that's why I was hesitant to call her. I was so afraid that this would be the outcome - no interest. As long as I didn't hear from her or pursue her, there was hope.
I guess I can assume now that she's definitely not interested although it would be helpful if she did send back a text that said "leave me alone" or "it's over - stop trying." That would definitely close the door for me.
I am afraid as time goes by that I will get less and less interested. I'm already pretty detached. I was not at all surprised that she didn't respond and I'm not really sad. It will be such a shame if she calls in a year and I'm happily involved with someone else or "over her."
Anyone have any words of wisdom? Thanks for listening. K