Ping1, I'm glad to see you've recognize what you've done and want to change even if it means you may not get her back. My H knew he was abusing me all along but tried to convince himself he wasn't and that it was all my fault. He only showed me (with his words and actions) that he didn't care enough about me or the marriage to put forth effort UNTIL I was already done and I asked him to leave. [/quote]
Sienna, people can change when they want to, I didn't think I needed to change either until W and I seperated. Has your H made any attempt after the S to change at all? Have you seen any change in him? Would you be willing to work on saving your M if he were to change?
Not everyone is equal but anyone can change if they first recognize they want to change and then do what it takes to make it happen.
