Sorry to hear about your sitch Itsy. I am glad to hear that you are dooing good now. I think the hardest part of it all is hanging on to the marriage...but being te kind of people we are, we want to save the most important R one can have. If I knew it was truly over I would be better off...but I choose to stick it out...for me I have decided to move on once the D is final...bt until then I have to endure all the pain...plus I have to learn to deal with the rsentment and anger. This guy is the lowest of the low and he just lives care free while he helps to tear my family apart....I wish life was fair, but if I learn how to move on and let it go I'll be better off...I really hate the impact this will have on my three girls. How will this affect their future R's?? I just hope one day he realizes what he has done and feels the pain that he has been a part in causing...


H 42
W 37
M17 T20 years
3 daughters 11,11,14
seperated 11/26/07
EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8
Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon