I agree with Puppy, CBK. Your kids are older. My oldest is S14, but I have smaller ones. I think that once he knows, he would be tempted to spill the beans to the smaller ones, D11 and D6. I don't think it would be right for them to find out. So I struggle with the issue. I have told MIL. Didn't do much good, however. Haven't heard anything about it. WW father is dying of cancer in another town. Don't think I have the heart to tell him, either. What do you think, Puppy? I think your kids were older, as well.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
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