rider, I'm sorry you are going through this. I couldn't imagine dealing with what you are going through with your kids. I might be way off base here but it occurs to me that you might be able to get some results by having your D contact a local childrens aid organization. If she tells them of the neglect and emotional abuse that she is being subjected to as well as telling them that she wants to go live with her father they might be able to step in and help her out.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
