My husband said he needed more space....

[seekpeaceofmind]

I'm kind of barging in here - but I have followed your posts from time to time and thought I'd comment tonight. I'm sorry that you had a fight, but don't beat yourself up too much. Conflict in a marriage is normal - the issue shouldn't be whether or not "fights" will happen, but how you will handle conflict when it occurs. If it's appropriate, make a brief apology to your H tomorrow, but definitely keep it short and humble. Then, back off while he connects with D. I can understand why you would feel threatened by whatever changes he is planning to make - for me, one of the biggest challenges in this whole DB business is to let go when what you want is so different from what is happening in reality.