For the guys with kids and a WAW

[hopeful4her]

After I spent some time on the board, took my S14, D11 and D6 to a local church's parking lot for them to rollerblade. We played basketball, soccer and swung on swings. Had a blast. WW is out partying. Her loss. Prayed on the way to the church to give me strength and to show me if I should expose to S14. We did end up talking. He was being kind of meloncholy, so I asked if he was alright. He was thinking about when he was a kid, and no stress. When he was a kid. Dude, your only 14. Just wait, I told him. I told him I was sorry about what was going on. I told him that his mother and I have different views on marriage. I got married forever. Like my parents. Grandpa and grandma fight and sometimes they don't get along, but the love each other. WW never had that growing up. I also told him that I wanted him to learn from our sitch. I couldn't bring myself to expose. I wanted to, but couldn't. I tell him how much I love his mother and that we are like the irresistable force and the immovable object. We laugh and I tell him again that I pray that we can still make it through this. He says he wants happy times again and I yell out " We are gonna find happy times again, right?!" to them all. They all shout "YEAH!!"
On the way home, WW calls. She called home, but line busy because of internet. D14 phone doesn't ring. I tell her we are together and on the way home. "Ya'll went to the park?" Yup. "Oh." She gives me her girlfriends number just in case her phone doesn't work right. She starts to tell me of a friend and his wife she saw at the fiesta. He was already drunk. She sounds a little buzzed already, herself. I say "oh, thats normal for him." She agrees and tells me "OK, well, I'll talk to you later."
Girls are bathed and now movie time. Time to make the popcorn. Loving detachment. Loving detachment. Keep on loving detachment. No snooping. Still gonna set an appointment for an attorney. Need to protect myself and the kids. Can I do loving detachment? What do ya'll think? I am here and there and everywhere.