Interesting thought. I was never in doubt as I found a notE she wrote to OM about OM breaking it off with his W. She came out and admitted it - I stupidly thought that would be enough for her to want to work on the marriage, but nope! It was a couple weeks after that I made the promise. She knows that is how I do business as well, my word has always been solid. I guess I should have waited! :-)
My biggest fear is my kids find out just because they will be in the house. I am reading a ton of books, and one book is on infidelity - maybe I should leave it out and have them ask questions. No, wrong way to do it. If I choose to do it, I will man up and do it. Really need to think about it. I wish I knew more about his sitc, that would help... but this is a "no snoop" week dang it.
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09