Don't forget that you agreed on not exposing the affair at a time when you might have been in denial about it. You are protecting yourself from what others may perceive of you and you are protecting her from being judged just in case you guys make it through. I think that is the thought process that I am/was going through.


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."