Been a while since I've written. Youngest D is now living with Xw on the account of MIL played a trump card where she has forced her D to "now be a Mother" Since I have No money. I can't fight it in the courts. D-12 was promised a weekend trip of shopping and fun. Turned out to be a plan to legally kidnap her for the fact that XW ran to her lawyer and filed a temp. custody order against me. Seems kind of a coincendence since I just had a court order to have her child support taken right out of her check. I had to do this cause she was short changing me every month by a couple hundred dollars, and since she will never return my phone calls and e-mails trying to get an explanation why, I had to force this issue. Turned out to backfire on me. ANyway. I am in constant contact with D12 and she tells me she is alone all the time while her mother and new H go fishing. Mom NEver dose anything with her without new H coming along. He decides all the shots and when D does not agree with them, SHe is punished by No contact with me. D HATES it down there and talks about running away. She cannot decide for herself until she is 14 who she wants to live with and Mom is making her life a living hell by not caring for her wants desires. Every time I talk to her on the phone, my heart crumbles. She crys half the time because shes so unhappy. SHe feels robbed of her life for a selfish act that her mother and grandmother have pulled on her. I'm afraid of what kind of long term results she will have from this ordeal.
Ive been going thru this crap for over 2 years and it ISNT getting any better!!